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Episode 16: What You Actually Want (and How to Get It in 2025)
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Episode 16: What You Actually Want (and How to Get It in 2025)

The Truth About What You're Really Chasing and The Real Reason You’re Not Happy Yet

(Episode 16: December 13th, 2024)

Episode Overview

In this deeply personal and transformative episode, Cait breaks down the core truth behind every goal and desire: it’s not the job, money, or relationship you’re chasing—it’s the feeling you believe those things will bring you. She unpacks why burnout, procrastination, and misaligned goals leave you feeling stuck and reveals the powerful shift that can change everything.

Through personal stories, actionable insights, and an invitation to go deeper, Cait will help you uncover the root of your desires and show you how to align with what truly matters—starting now.


Key Topics Covered (Timestamps Included)

  • [00:01:00] Why resolutions fail: It’s not about willpower, it’s about alignment.

  • [00:05:00] Cait’s personal story of burnout, frustration, and chasing someone else’s version of success.

  • [00:07:00] The real reason behind every goal: It’s the emotional payoff, not the thing itself.

  • [00:11:00] The primary manifestation: Why emotions are the root of all desires.

  • [00:15:00] A personal experiment: How Cait shifted from chasing goals to creating aligned feelings.

  • [00:22:00] Practical tools for identifying and embodying your desired emotions today.

  • [00:28:00] The power of knowing your Soul Ethos: Core, Growth, and Goal Values.

  • [00:30:00] An invitation to the “What Really Matters” masterclass to create your most aligned year yet.


Must-Listen Moments (Shareable Quotes & Highlights)

  • “Everything you’ve ever wanted is because of how you think it will make you feel.”

  • “The emotion is the manifestation. The things you want are just the side effects.”

  • “When you master how you feel, you stop chasing things. The things start coming to you.”


Resources & Links Mentioned

  • Free Masterclass: What Really Matters

  • Join the Everyday Esoteric Community: [Join Here]


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